Support person...

I am supposed to be my husbands support person. I'm not sure what that means exactly. I don't know why I need an official title to do what I have always been doing. Haven't I? I make his appointments. In fact he was supposed to have one today but made me cancel it. I was furious. I thought, "If you aren't gonna go to the appointments I set up then set up your own!" I didn't mean to be crass, but I felt stupid setting up an appointment then cancelling it. Plus, he didn't say he was to tired and feeling sick. At that time he made it sound like it was my fault he wasn't going. Because me and the kids weren't going with. I know that is part of it, but he is not a child. He should be able to go alone. It is a hassle for me to go and bring the kids, but it is no different for him either way. I am just really mad about the whole thing. On top of that he acted very childish about it all. I feel like a mother not a wife. If I am the mom I want to be able to tell him what to do and ground him when he doesn't follow through! I can't support him if he won't let me.

So he missed his appointment for a complete physical from our family doctor. I will have to reschedule it. He did go earlier this week, by himself, for his abdominal ultrasound, and chest xray.