Help!

My husband said that if I don't help him with this he won't succeed. At first I was upset by this comment. I felt that is horrible to place that type of blame on me. I know that if he doesn't succeed it won't be my fault, but at the same time he will need my help and support. He will need more than that if he can get it. I am talking about the entire families support as well.

My in-laws are the greatest people ever, but they are enablers like me. They have all kinds of food that he can't have. When you are hungry you will eat whatever is easiest. Healthy food never is the easiest or fastest choice. If it were we would all be healthy because we would all eat the best foods.

One of the hardest parts is that healthy food is also the most expensive. With the economy the way it is money is thin and needs to go as far as possible. I wish I knew how to cook more. If I new how to make healthier foods it would be easy. I can only cook about 7 different meals, and most aren't that healthy. Most of them contain pasta!

I am doing my best and learning as I go. The most important thing is that I am here for him.